Candy's continuing and personal story about life with chronic pain after suffering a broken back. T5 refers to the fifth thoracic vertebra ... broken in 2003.
Friday, May 28, 2010
Can't Customer Service and Healthcare Go Together?
I’ve come to expect poor treatment from companies (don’t get me started on my recent experience with Time Warner Cable where I spent almost an hour on the phone with technical support and still couldn’t get the problem resolved.)
I still do expect some kind of special care within the healthcare field. After all, don’t people who are in healthcare do it because they want to help people? Don’t they realize that most of us who are visiting doctors are doing so because we hurt or have some kind of issue? Shouldn’t empathy and customer service be part of their training? Don’t I (and the millions of others in pain) deserve to be treated with respect, consideration and good service?
In the past couple weeks, I’ve dealt with three different medical practices – a primary care office, a gynecologist and a pain clinic. I’m not talking about the doctors; I’m talking about the phone calls with front office personnel. I have changed my phone number numerous times with my doctor’s office, but it doesn’t ever get changed on ALL their records so, for instance, the referral coordinator calls an old number and I never get the message. Geez. The pain clinic says to have my primary care office send a referral and they (the pain clinic) will call me to set an appointment after they review my information. After not hearing from anyone, I call my primary care office who says they sent the referral a week ago and left a message (at my old phone number). Then I call the pain clinic who says they’ve been waiting for my call to set an appointment. What? I was waiting on them as they requested. Double geez. So, in pain, I’ll get to see the pain clinic in three weeks (the first available appointment) where I will have to pee in a cup to prove I take Rx pain medication and nothing else.
I guess I should be thrilled – only three weeks and no one yelled at me … yet. Now, that’s customer service … in today’s world. I don’t sound jaded or frustrated, do I?
Wednesday, May 26, 2010
Do Muscle Relaxants Affect Hot Flashes?
Anyway, I’m also going through menopause and experiencing hot flashes. They are real! Hot flashes wake me numerous times during the night (and that’s in addition to the normal waking for a body in pain).
A couple weeks ago, after a particularly grueling day, I took my Tizanidine at bedtime. No hot flashes during the night. Related? Come on; a muscle relaxer reducing hot flashes? Again, several nights later, the same thing happened after I took the Tizanidine.
Last week, at a visit to the gynecologist, I asked – could the muscle relaxer really diminish the hot flashes? The doctor said, “Sure, why not. Lots of drugs have alternate uses.”
I do NOT plan to start taking the Tizanidine more often just to treat hot flashes, but it is an interesting thought. Anyone else have this kind of experience?
Monday, May 24, 2010
Deer in the Garden


Any ideas on keeping deer out of gardens?
Thursday, May 20, 2010
The Highlights, Lowlights and Pain of Darlington

I’m back. I’ve been handwriting my entries for the past week or so since I was out of town and computers weren’t my first priority. Now it’s time to get caught up and let you know what’s been going on.
Darlington: We survived the May 8 NASCAR race at Darlington. For the most part, we had fun. I enjoyed watching a race recap at home to see the different points of view. On TV, you only hear about the leaders and a couple other big name drivers. At the race track, the fans booed when four-time champion Jimmie Johnson was introduced. They cheered (loudly) when he wrecked. And the best part was watching Jeff Gordon pass so many people at the end of the race.
The highlights:
- Camp Darlington was close and convenient.
- Walking on pit road pre-race.
- The sounds and smalls and excitement of live NASCAR.
The lowlights:
- People who are rude and inconsiderate. I knew Camp Darlington would be noisy but I didn’t expect the drunks playing loud music would last past 4 am. Plus, people who kick, push, and exhibit other forms of obnoxiousness in a crowded stadium.
- Porta-Potties. I don’t think I need to explain that.
Pain? Yes. We stood. We walked. We carried. We camped. Even with my maximum doses of prescription pain medicines, I hurt. At home on Sunday, I rested and slept pretty much all day. Next stop … Nashville ... visiting family.
Friday, May 7, 2010
NASCAR at Darlington -- Here We Come!
There is part of me that is dreading the walking, standing, carrying of going to a race. But, I also know about the exhilaration and excitement, the sounds and smells and crowds of actually being at a race.
I learned last year when we went to a race at Lowe’s Motor Speedway in Charlotte, North Carolina that the big tracks are tough. The constant looking back and forth to see the entire track was extremely painful, so this year we are going to a smaller track which won’t require as much head movement.
Am I crazy? I guess so. I know I couldn’t do this regularly and I know I’ll be hurting for days, but I’m going and it’s going to be a blast.
Got the camera, binoculars, extra water, poncho … and pain medicine … packed. Here we come, Darlington – the track that is too tough to tame.